| Location | Sheffield |
| Age | 18 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1989 |
| Date of Death | 5/2008 |
| Visitors | 4,204 since 28/06/2008 |
| Creator |
ASHLEY PATRICK MURPHY
04 July 1989-26 May 2008 Aged 18yrs
Car Mechanic
Born and Bred Sheffield,Wincobank
Ashley has left behind mum Karen, Stepdad Pat, sister Natasha, girlfriend Jodie.
Ashley died in a tragic car accident in which 2 of his friends passed away with him and 2 were injured.
Ashley was a gentle giant, kept himself to himself, very quiet and personal. Ashley was loved by all that knew him, a soft touch to his family and friends, Polite, grownup for his age, well mannered, respected,healthy.
Ashleys life evolved around the job he loved...typical boy, love of cars!
Ashley always helped others and had time for everyone. Even in death Ashley has helped others by donating his organs
Not a day goes by that i dont think of you. You was the love of my life and no one else comes near you. You was one of a kind and i am grateful for everything you did for me. You treat me like a queen and gave me the best years of my life. there will never be another like you. Hope you are looking after our princess.
Love you loads
Jodie
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Waiting at the Door
I can’t explain so deep inside
The very fabric of my soul
Only a heart that grieves such loss
Can ever truly understand
It’s like you’re waiting at the door
Until a loved one comes back home
You feel a longing in your heart
When they appear the longing stops
But in a loss that never ends
You’re always standing at that door
You feel the longing in the breeze
So incomplete and never filled
I cannot find the words to say
Just what it’s like to want forever
Never seeing them again
Just always waiting at the door
Alison Mary Dunn
hiya ash, a year has pasted since we lost you that terrible day.not a second goes by that your not in my thoughts.miss you loads ash.xxxxxx
Not a day goes by that i don't think of you. You was the love of my life and i will never forget you. I find comfort that you can now look after our baby girl and that your both looking over me in heaven and one day i will be with you both. Love you loads, missing you loads ash xxx
its so painfull to hear that you had gone, i only knew u from school an it was a shock to me to hear what had happend...
i still got that cd u lent me way back in year 7 too,
you will be sadly missed, by everyone. thoughts and sympothy to your family.
R.I.P."ASH".
Love,Sian,Rob(frm newman garage),
and kids.
XXXXXXXXX
for ashley
your our first thought in the morning and last thought at night, no day goes by without you being in our heart,i may not know you as well as others, but i do have great memories of you and they are mine for me to cherish, the day you passed it hurt inside for everyone, we didnt want you to leave us,its a pain no words describe, nothing and nobody could make it go away, ashley was a treasure, things i remeber of him make me laugh and smile ,thats what you have to hold on to, he was a lovely boy, be glad you knew him, i am. well never forget him....... how could we.
well see you again one day, we promise Hollie and Reece x
my little angel
The day they came and told me, I just fell to the ground in despair
I couldn’t believe this had happened, not my ashley?!
Life can so often have it’s disappointments, events which make you frown
Though now I can’t seem to get myself, back up from this down
I'm better then I first was, now is this as good as it gets
This roller coaster ride I'm on, isn't really the best
I’ve tried a mixture of strategies, to cope with this nightmare
Yet I can’t seem to cover it up, my soul is left for vultures to share
I know how strong I am, which is just as strong as you
I wonder what you would of wanted, and try my best to do
But things are so much harder now
I still can’t believe its true
Together we had hope, now all I feel is blue
The world is full of badness, corruption and misery
Without you by my side, as it as always was before
This crazy messed up world, folds me further in
I never felt it quite as much, until that horrid day
But then, before that, you were always there, and kept me safely under your wing
It’s as though one life has ended, and a bigger struggle begun
I wonder how we will all carry on, what seems a life time with out you here, the person we all loved, so dear!
Sometimes I’m made to feel, this is not what I should declare, and mask it from the world , as it’s not what they want to share
But I think you knew me best of all, and fake is not my style
I miss all that we had Ashley, the friendship that we shared
That will never be replaced, and that’s the hardest part to bear
Until we meet again, inside my heart is where you’ll stay
Love and miss you forever and always, my little brother Ashley
xx
To Jodie
*..*..*..*My thoughts are with you Jodie at this sad nd painfull time. I lost my boyfriend 4 days b4 xmas 18/12/07 I understand how hard it will have been for you nd still will be. I hold on to the hope that there is a place we all go when our life comes to an end and I pray Ashley will meet you when your time comes as I do Dan will for me. Take things slowly Jodie 1day at a time, few words but it has helped me get this far*..*..*..*God bless you and Ashley's family*..*..*
so sorry
So sorry to read this. Such a tragic loss of a lovely young man. My thoughts are with you all and I know what you are going through as I also lost my son in a road accident. God Bless you all x
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